Charie, Roxy and Danette… you have already read this post. I am just posting it here so my family can read it too!
(Danette, Bridge, Roxy [30 weeks pregnant], & Charie)
Close to a month ago I participated in the 5K of the Salt Lake City Marathon. I am proud of myself. I had multiple occasions to bail out on participating, but I didn’t.

Reasons I had to bail:
• I hurt my knee pretty bad in February in a skiing accident that happened when I avoided crashing into a small child who cut me off, and I had to stop training.
• I hate running. Puke Puke Puke!
• Both my son and daughter had soccer games at 9:00 AM and my husband had to coach my daughter. Who was going to watch my son?
• I had to wake up at 4:00 FREAKING AM to get to SLC. I am NOT a morning person.
• Did I mention I hate running?
• I almost ran out of gas on the way there.
• A cop passed me in a 55 mph zone when I was going 80 on my way to SLC. Construction zone I might add.
Why I didn’t bail:
• I miss my college roomies.
• Because I am NOT a wimp even though my husband calls me one.
• Because I got my mom to watch my son at his game so he had someone to cheer him on. He made TWO goals!
• Because Nyquil and 3 beers lets you go to bed at 9 PM if you take them together. Even if you usually go to bed at midnight. (I do not recommend this! Whatever… I totally do. Um, maybe I don’t? HEHE.)
• I drive a Toyota Corolla (1994 Yeah!) and it will drive forever on fumes.
• The cop passed me, whew, and then I followed it! /wink
• I REALLY miss my college roomies.
So how did I actually do?
I ran 2 of the 3.1 miles. Next time I will run all 3.1.
I finished in less than the 45 minutes I had hoped for. I have no idea on my time… I just know it was less than 45 minutes.
I was REALLY sore right for about 4 days. I had a hard time walking down stairs. This wouldn’t have been a problem if I would have trained for it more. My poor husband rubbed my legs on HIS birthday.
I have to say that I had so much fun running the 5k. I actually started crying the second we started running. I was so happy just to be a included again with these friends.
Let me tell you why…
During my sophomore year in college I moved out and moved in with some roomies I worked with. Well the first roomies were NOT good roomies to live with. One got pregnant within a few months, and one was “dealing” out of our house. Let’s just say I didn’t live there long. My boyfriend (now husband) suggested I move in with these girls I had gone to high school with. I didn’t think they would want me to live with them considering I considered them very popular while I was not. I was totally surprised when they said yes. Not only did I get along with them, but they accepted me as I was.
I live in Utah. I drink alcohol and coffee. I am usually NOT accepted by a majority of the population.
Yet I was.
So anyways, I started crying at the beginning of the race, and tonight when I thought of how thankful I am that these girls were in my life. I am so excited that they have all started their own blogs and I can now enjoy reading about their families.
Charie: Thank you for always being nice to me and for accepting me as I am. From the first time I met you I always felt accepted.
Roxy: Thank you for showing me how one can take hard decisions and make your life better for it. I need to make decisions like you do.
Danette: Thank you for being shy. From you I learned a lot of how to make people feel welcome and safe. This sounds weird… but thank you.
Sarah: Even though you were missing from the 5k… I want to tell you that I appreciated you for teaching me that one can love entirely.
You can read about their takes on the 5k here, here and here!
These are some of the comments I received from my roomies! In no particular order.
Danette:
Oh Brigitte what can I say your the best! You did have a lot of obstacles working against you but you did it and I’m so glad you were there! It was a great time!
Your post is so great (sniff, sniff) I still have a lump in my throat from all the kind words. That was a special time in all of our lives and I wouldn’t change any of it. We were all learning how to be independent responsible adults. So glad I went through that learning curve in such good company and I’m so glad we share those memories and friendships. You should know it took a dose of acceptance on your part as well to live with us, that’s just part of the game when you live with people. You and Max spiced things up and were a crucial ingredient to our collective mix of roommate madness. Thanks for that and for teaching us a few things along the way as well.
PS we could start up a Spice Girl type group 
Charie= nice spice
Rox= decider spice (not like dubaya though aka George Bush)
Sarah= lovely spice
Danette= shy spice
Brigitte= spicy spice
Love you!
Roxy:
Hey how did miss out on this post. I havn’t checked my hotmail account in forever and had an email about your post. I always check your family one and figured you were not going to post about it.
I was so impressed with you Brigitte! What a dedicated friend you are. I thought it was so great that you came although you had things that could have gotten in the way.
I loved talking and laughing at subway as we looked back on our roomie days. What fun memories. I hope you know that you are amazing and I have learned a lot from you as well. You better watch out I come to Utah all the time for races and I will hit you up again! Love ya.
Charie:
Okay Danette I agree 100% with your comments! Laughed so hard about the spice girls HAA HAA although I am not sure I am so nice anymore…I try but uhh I think Rox has talked about my evolution being married to Jonathan…I am much more assertive now 
Bridg…you made me choked up reading that too! I feel the same way about you. I am so glad you didn’t find me too stuffy or conservative and wanted to live with us. You made college SOOO much fun and besides just cracking me up all the time you were always there for me when I needed a compassionate friend. I wouldn’t have traded living with you for anything and I am so happy to have had the experience to run with you. YOu ROCKED it! I really will never forget starting out with you and feeling like I was 10 years younger again because you were there. So I guess we are both babies because I cried the entire race 
I only wish we could have pulled an all nighter talking and laughing…not enough time!
I just love you…thanks for making my day with this post! I feel the love and it is completely mutual!
ps. JEss she would have had to speed because we talked to her when she left and there was no possible way to make it to SLC in an hour and 15 min. without going WAY too fast! 
Sara:
GO BRIDGET!!! You totally rock. I am so proud of all of you guys. Still very sad I missed out on the 5k!! I still really say we need to plan our next reunion trip. A fun girl vacation. And when are we meeting for lunch??? I’ll e-mail you!
Loved this post…the spice girls huh?